Do I Need Dating & Relationship Coaching?

Let us answer this one by asking you some of our own questions:

• Do you struggle meeting potential partners?

• Do you ever wonder how to make your crush like you?

• Don’t know how to ask someone out on a date?

• Not sure how to navigate modern dating?

• Do you have a love/hate relationship with the dating apps, but don’t know how else to meet quality people?

• Have you ever worried about how to act on a date?

• Not sure you’re ready to let someone into your life?

• Do you struggle to find confidence in yourself?

• Don’t know if it’s the right time to introduce someone to your parents?

• Do you feel unworthy of a securely attached, healthy relationship?

If your answer is yes to any of these, then DATEABILITY is right for you. Why don’t you take our Romantic Intelligence Quiz and get a free 1 hour Love Readiness Assessment with one of our Dating & Relationship Coaches.

I heard DATEABILITY is only for Christians, is this true?

Anyone can sign up for DATEABILITY services, whatever their beliefs or spiritual background. While Jessica (our DATEABILITY CEO) has a strong faith in God the coaching team are fully qualified with a range of coaching and therapeutic tools that have transformed Christians and non-Christians alike. It is about holding you accountable to your personal values.

How Much Does it Cost?

This depends! Our packages range from $350 for a Healing From Heartbreak coaching session to $2,500 for our 6 Session Dating & Relationship Coaching Program (MEN only).

For more information on what is included in the sessions see our coaching page.

Who are the Dating & Relationship Coaches?

Read our about page to find out more about Jess.

Will I be in an amazing relationship after 3 months of working with Jess?

I (Jess) would love to guarantee a beautiful, wholistic and healthy securely attached relationship for all our clients at the end of our 3-6 month programs. However, that would be akin to a personal trainer promising their clients a perfectly sculpted body after only working out twice a month for an hour at a time! This might be possible for regular gym junkies, but not for all.

What’s important is that you build a foundation on which to work.

What we can promise…

What we can promise every client after 3-6 months of hard work on the Romantic Intelligence Coaching Program is:

• A more confident and attractive version of yourself.

• A deeper knowledge of attraction between men and women and how to enhance that in your own self.

• An understanding of masculine and feminine energy, and how to use that in your favour.

• Stronger social skills and awareness (e.g. working the room, approaching anyone, creating intrigue and interesting conversation).

• An understanding of how to navigate modern dating online and offline, especially!

• The feeling of empowerment and peace about being single because dating has become such a fun skill-set and activity for you.

How do I get the best out of Dating & Relationship Coaching?

While DATEABILITY proudly believes that every person was made for a unique purpose:

Never think there is no room for improvement

You've enlisted the help of a Dating & Relationship Coach because you want things to change! Therefore, assume that there is always an exciting adventure of learning ahead, on a bed of self-acceptance, self-love and grace. We ask you to be teachable and take personal responsibility for your learnings in romance and all aspects of life.

Take notes in the sessions with your coach, ask questions, accept feedback, do your homework, read the books suggested for you and take the attitude that you are a student who is always growing their knowledge and improving themselves!

If you feel like something is too hard, tell your coach - we'll work through a solution at your pace.

Show up on time and be physically and emotionally present.

If you respect people's time, they will open up their heart to you. Turn up late continually and watch them close the door on you politely. Our coaches only accept select clients per month and to ensure they are fully present for every one of your sessions. We are dealing with matters of the heart. You must be ready to dive in and make serious changes.

Do your homework.

Life does not reward your intentions, only your actions. You can't expect long term, deeply rooted new learnings if you don't do as you promise us.

Yes - it's about us, not just yourself! We are a team and we would love to tangible results emerge for your unique dating life in 6-12 sessions!

Be patient with the process.

Some clients yield huge results after one month, then recoil back quickly as they adjust to the change. This is a normal occurrence when major shifts are happening in your life. It is an identity recalibration!

Why I Don’t Offer 1:1 Coaching to Women Without RQ Essentials

Because I’m not here to let you steer the ship — I’m here to get you to shore.

Over the years, I’ve noticed something important:

When women jump into 1:1 coaching without the foundations of Romantic Intelligence, we end up going in circles.

Why? Because they often come expecting therapy — a place to vent, unpack, or process aimlessly.

But I’m not a therapist.

I’m a coach with a clear, structured pathway that leads to results.

And this pathway works best when followed step-by-step, not when we skip ahead based on feelings or week-to-week crises.

Coaching is for transformation — not emotional babysitting.

When you come into my world, I’m not going to let you stay stuck in analysis paralysis.

I’m here to show you what works, why your patterns keep repeating, and how to embody the kind of emotional maturity, feminine grace, and dating strategy that leads to godly marriage.

That’s why the RQ101 Essentials program (coming soon) is your entry point.

It gives you the tools, the mindset shifts, and the exact framework I use with high-performing Christian women who are serious about getting results in their love life.

Why the group format matters

I know the idea of group coaching might feel intimidating, but here’s the truth:

Community is a mirror.

It shows you that you’re not alone.

It challenges you to grow by watching others wrestle with the same things.

And it brings out more breakthrough moments than any solo session ever could.

Women often tell me that hearing someone else be coached is when their lightbulb went off.

In community, shame melts. Courage grows. And deep, godly friendships are often born.

Why I do coach men 1:1 (for now)

You might be wondering why I do offer 1:1 coaching for men.

Simple.

I’m still in research-and-development mode.

Men are wired differently, and my 1:1 sessions allow me to observe, test, and refine what will eventually become a men’s version of RQ101 that’s just as robust and transformative.

Got More Questions About DATEABILITY Coaching?

Please feel free to contact us!