1. When it comes to men, your most common complaint is… A. They don’t pursue me at all — I’m invisible. B. They want me… but I don’t feel the same. C. They’re intimidated by me or act disinterested. D. They show interest but then ghost, fizzle, or flake. 2. Your dating life feels most like: A. A revolving door — I’m approached often, but nothing sticks. B. A solo journey — I rarely meet any eligible Christian men. C. A battlefield — I’m constantly overthinking or guarding myself. D. An emotional rollercoaster — highs are high, but the lows drain me. 3. Which statement sounds most like your inner world? A. I secretly wonder if I’m too much for a godly man. B. I’ve waited faithfully — where is he? C. I attract chaos and then blame myself. D. I’m just not sure if anyone is truly worth settling down for. 4. What’s your go-to move when you feel rejected or confused by a guy? A. I shut down emotionally and get super analytical. B. I talk it out with girlfriends, then carry on like nothing happened. C. I start questioning everything I said and did. D. I tell myself, “God will send the right one,” and withdraw. 5. When you think about marriage, your biggest fear is… A. Losing control or freedom. B. Choosing the wrong person or settling. C. Being abandoned or unloved. D. That it will never happen for me. 6. Your relationship history could best be described as: A. A few sweet almosts, but mostly quiet. B. Lots of attention, but no one who truly gets me. C. Loyal and intense — but usually one-sided. D. Non-negotiable — I have high standards and rarely compromise. 7. When a man does show strong interest, you usually feel: A. Confused — I’m not sure if I like him back. B. Nervous — I’m scared it won’t last. C. Hopeful — but unsure what to do next. D. Skeptical — I start looking for red flags immediately. 8. What was your role growing up (in family, school, church)? A. The strong one — I carried a lot, even when no one noticed. B. The good girl — quiet, kind, and low-maintenance. C. The rebel — or the misunderstood one. D. The favourite — I was adored and never short on attention. 9. Which of these most often blocks your progress in love? A. I lose interest quickly or keep dating emotionally unavailable men. B. I’m afraid of being vulnerable or seen as needy. C. I self-sabotage or ignore red flags out of loneliness. D. I rarely put myself in environments where men can meet me. 10. How do you usually feel after a promising date? A. Excited… but kind of guarded. B. Elated — and already imagining your wedding playlist. C. Doubtful — you replay every detail and wonder what went wrong. D. Unmoved — the chemistry wasn’t strong enough. 11. Your most common prayer around love sounds like: A. “Lord, help me know if he’s the one.” B. “Lord, show me how to soften and receive.” C. “Lord, heal what keeps me repeating these patterns.” D. “Lord, if this isn’t it, send me better options!” 12. If your love life was a movie, the genre would be: A. A classic slow-burn romance. B. A thriller — exciting, but hard to follow. C. A powerful biopic — driven by growth and legacy. D. A rom-com with a rotating cast. Enter your email to get your result: Submit Quiz
