Testimonials

DATEABILITY’s coaches have helped many people find love in others, and most importantly, in themselves.

With the right kind of skills, advice and experience the DATEABILITY team can get you ready to find love and happiness as well as steering you on the right path for a beautiful healthy relationship that leads to a godly marriage.

With one of our coaches by your side you will have all the tools you need to navigate that dating scene. But don’t just take our word for it…

About the 8-week Romantic Intelligence 101 Foundations Program…

In terms of how I’ve been post-course? One word, transformed. I’ve been sitting with a lot of emotions and reflecting on what the course meant to me and how I’ve come out the other end and the most complete word is -- transformed. I knew going into the course that it was something really special, but I didn't expect it to challenge me so thoroughly to face my complacency, address my lack of faith that good men are out there, and radically transform my heart to see the dating pool as abundant and overflowing. As a single-Christian woman in her 30s, it can be devastatingly disheartening when you look around your immediate circle and fail to see any credible options. This course taught me to look beyond the physical and reprogram my mindset to see abundance. Whilst it's still a journey, I have loved walking through life with a glass-half-full energy towards dating and men, and they're responding to it too!

— Kate, 32, Australia

I love that this course was specifically for Christians and focused on our unique challenges. It was really raw and not overly conservative which was great. Sex etc was talked about freely and I love that Jess is pro the 'multiple dating strategy'. I also loved learning about the RAS and the statements we made to stick on the mirror - I think I will be able to recite this forever now!

— Hannah, 43, Australia

I feel like my confidence has boosted so much after doing this course. The first half of the course was more relevant to me. Processing my emotions, dealing with past traumas, knowing (really knowing) my self-worth, learning to radiate my feminine energy and understanding my attachment style. It's put a lot of things into perspective, even things I already knew about myself but needed confirmation / affirmation on. I love the new me and really enjoying her new energy in social environments, (even with other women). I'm so aware of my feminine energy and the effects of it, and I love how powerful and in control I feel as a result of it.

— Alice, 31, Australia

About the 8-week Romantic Intelligence 101 Foundations Program…

I am so happy I finally took the leap and signed up for Romantic Intelligence 101! Jess is super supportive and really takes the time to make sure everyone feels heard and appreciated. The content was practical, interesting and easy to keep up with over the 8 weeks (although I still did it at the last minute!) and a lot of it could be applied to all areas of life. The group sessions were invaluable. It was so lovely to meet other women navigating the single season. Everyone was at different places in their journey and had so much wisdom and support to share. It was great having male guests in the last couple of weeks too for the inside scoop on the male perspective!

— Chloe, 38, Australia

I believe that although there is no state of personal perfection, it is vital to address one's hurts, limiting beliefs, etc. before embarking on finding a suitable life-partner. I believe that failing to do so, leaves one vulnerable to a plethora of dating pit-falls, ill-informed decisions and poor choices - and heartbreak. I believe choosing a life-partner is the most important life-decision that one will ever have to make and that the wrong relationship can have dire ramifications for every area in one's life. Thank you, Jess, for helping me to prepare for this most important part of my journey.

— Shirley, 57, Australia

My dear sisters, I highly recommend RQ101 if you are a future marriage-minded single. First of all, Jess is such an amazing coach!! Secondly, I had very little romantic intelligence and I can see how that has affected my dating life (or lack thereof). I finally felt ready to date again, after a painful heartbreak (with the man I thought I would marry) and working with Jess in the Healing From Heartbreak session. However, I found myself falling into the same pitfalls (namely falling too quickly). This course came at the perfect time, while I was dealing with another fallout. It is so tricky navigating through dating, (especially Christian dating). This course helped me to unpack the unhelpful (unbiblical) beliefs I held about dating. It addressed a lot of my questions (like how to slow down and where are all the good men hiding?) RQ 101 is a step by step action plan to develop romantic intelligence. Over the course of 8 weeks, we work through 8 modules. Each week we engage in group coaching calls where Jess checks in with us and answers our questions. We start by working on ourselves (our mindset, emotions, boundaries, femininity and identity). Then we dive into attachment theory, the importance of slowing down and creating a volume and abundance of options in our dating lives. I am so grateful for this course, Jess and the Dateability team. I now have a new list of skills, understand more about myself, men and how to navigate the dating world. I feel more bold, confident, feminine and am excited to make new connections and actually relax enough to enjoy the dating process.

— Rose, 31, Australia

What Clients Are Saying

"Coaching with Jess has made me calmer, less anxious and more in control of my dating life. My desire to find a guy used to dominate conversations with girlfriends, but I'm so much more relaxed now, not to mention all the regular dates I go on!”

— Ellen, UK

“DATEABILITY gives you the safe space to reflect on an aspect of life that can be very private and sensitive! It’s also an opportunity to deliberately reflect on your love life!”

— Mary, Aus

“Jess helped me get my life back and my self worth back. I learned that there’s nothing wrong with me; I just haven’t met the right guy yet and that has given me incredible freedom and restored my confidence in who I am as a high value, attractive woman.”

— Rachel, USA

Hear how Sacha learned to feel all of her emotions after completing our one on one coaching program!

What Clients Are Saying

“DATEABILITY gives you the safe space to reflect on an aspect of life that can be very private and sensitive! It’s also an opportunity to deliberately reflect on your love life!”

— Client from 2019

“I am so grateful to my DATEABILITY Coach for the greater level of freedom he walked me through. He provided a safe place for my emotions.”

— Andrea, USA

“Working with a DATEABILITY Coach was amazing! I felt so supported, and empowered to see myself and my dating world in a whole new way. I feel so on track with the next chapter of my life and with his help, I've seen my social life, my career, my health (and so much more) level up.”

— Effie, AUS

“I’ve been more deliberate and reflective of the people around me - aware of when a guy is interested or into me and how to manage that - more confident in my ability to understand and choose healthy friendships or relationship dynamics”

— Client from 2019

What Clients Are Saying

“The healing session I had with Jessica was so helpful! It kickstarted the journey of letting go of a previous relationship and brought greater freedom and healing from God. It helped me see myself as God sees me and has given me greater confidence in dating moving forward. I'm feeling so much lighter now!”

— Lizzy, UK

“The Healing From Heartbreak (HFH) Session was so incredibly POWERFUL! I wish I had done it sooner! By the end, I felt like a HUGE weight had been lifted. I moved from a 3-4 to a 7, in terms of my healing (on a scale of 1 to 10). My story is not over yet!! My heart feels WHOLE again. I HIGHLY recommend this session for anyone who needs healing from heartbreak. The shift I felt within the first 15 minutes alone, would have been worth my money/the investment!

— Rose, AUS

Faith, USA

“I saw a commercial once of Rupunzel stuck in a tower awaiting rescue and the point of course was a product that provided a way to set herself free. I often think of that commercial and looking back, realizing how I was that girl stuck in a tower, desperately wanting someone to rescue me and whisk me away for a happily ever after. And when I heard about Dateability, to be honest I was hoping that they would deliver that particular knight in shining armor on a white stallion. However, much to my surprise they instead gave me the tools to rescue myself from that lonely tower. I will forever be grateful for Coach Jess and Coach Ryan and Dateability. I can't begin to describe how much I've been able to level up emotionally and mentally. The tools that I've been given have been nothing short of life changing. I truly felt like they said "hey, we see where you're at but we're not gonna let you stay there."

I found the quote below and find it applies so well to not only my journey but those who are interested in taking some next steps with Dateability. ‘It could be a little daunting but sometimes we have do courageous things if we want to see something new.’ Pastor Jill Johnson”

Nancy - Client Interview

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